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The Unique Guide to Motherhood: Embracing Your Journey

Introduction:

Motherhood is undoubtedly one of the most rewarding and fulfilling experiences in a woman’s life. However, it is also a time filled with challenges, uncertainties, and moments of self-doubt. Each mother’s journey is unique, just like the precious little beings they bring into the world. In this blog, we will explore a unique guide to motherhood, focusing on embracing your individuality, finding support, and cherishing the incredible bond with your child.

  1. Embrace Your Individuality as a Mother:

This aspect of motherhood emphasizes the importance of recognizing and preserving your individuality while navigating the responsibilities of being a parent. It’s essential to remember that being a mother doesn’t mean losing your sense of self. Continue pursuing your hobbies, passions, and personal growth, for it will contribute to your overall wellbeing and make you a happier, more fulfilled mother.

  1. Accept Imperfections and Learn from Mistakes:

As mothers, we often set high expectations for ourselves, striving to be the perfect parent. However, it’s crucial to accept that there is no such thing as perfection in motherhood. Embrace your imperfections and learn from your mistakes. Each challenge is an opportunity for growth and understanding. Allow yourself to make mistakes and forgive yourself for not having all the answers.

  1. Find Your Support System:

Motherhood is undoubtedly a journey best traveled with a strong support system. It could be your partner, family, friends, or even a close-knit group of fellow mothers. Surrounding yourself with positive and understanding individuals who share your experiences can provide a network of emotional support, advice, and reassurance during challenging times.

  1. Prioritize Self-care:

Motherhood can be overwhelming, and it’s easy for mothers to overlook their own needs while focusing solely on their children. However, remember that taking care of yourself is crucial. Practice self-care regularly, whether it’s scheduling time for exercise, indulging in a relaxing bath, or enjoying a cup of coffee in peace. Prioritizing self-care allows you to recharge, maintain balance, and be the best version of yourself for your little ones.

  1. Cherish the Bond with Your Child:

Perhaps the most unique and beautiful aspect of motherhood is the unparalleled bond between a mother and her child. Every milestone, every giggle, and every hug is a precious moment to be treasured. Take the time to savor these precious moments, create lasting memories, and nourish the special connection you share with your child. Embrace the journey, knowing that your love and nurturing are shaping their future.

Conclusion:

Motherhood is a journey like no other—one that is filled with countless surprises, challenges, and immeasurable joy. Embracing your unique path, seeking support, prioritizing self-care, and cherishing the incredible bond with your child will ensure that you navigate motherhood with confidence and grace. Remember, there is no single right way to be a mother. Trust your instincts, embrace your individuality, and savor every moment of this extraordinary journey called motherhood.

Things to Know about a Subchronic Hematoma

Going into my Final Pregnancy

My final pregnancy was a very hard, emotional, & scary one. I found out I was pregnant the end of October 2019. It was such a rush to know I was able to get pregnant again after so many years.

During the first week (~6 weeks pregnant) I started to bleed while I was at work. I was hysterical and immediately called the nurse advice line to see what my options were. I ended up at the clinic to see my Primary Care Manager (PCM). It was at that point I was told I was most likely experiencing a miscarriage and I needed to be referred to an OBGYN. My PCM carefully explained to me the possibility of the miscarriage and how it was nothing I did that caused it (which I still felt like it was).

I ended up at the OBGYN just a few hours later. I got to see a sac that was empty. I was told one of two possibilities; I was miscarrying or I was not far enough along to see an embryo. My husband was a different country away but i was lucky enough to have two friends there for support!

7 week baby

Another week goes by before I had another appointment. This time they saw the baby & we got to hear the heart beat. I wasn’t out of the woods yet. I had two other major bleeds and one that sent me to the hospital. I spent 24 hours in the hospital, again being told I was having a miscarriage.

I bled from November until middle of January and was on bed rest during that time. I was told to not move other than going to and from the restroom. It was super hard as I’ve always been an active person.

Second Trimester

Once I moved into my second trimester I still had the hematoma but was able to stop any contractions and bleeding.

Love & Marriage

Did you know I married my best friend at the young age of 20? Yup, I did. It was one of the best decisions I have ever made.

I have to say being married to my best friend is amazing! It’s been an eventful 10 years and counting. We’ve laughed together, cried, grew our family by three kiddos and two animals, two beautiful girls, handsome boy and two fur babies. We’ve traveled the world together & will continue to add adventures any chance we get.

Let me tell you how we first met. We worked together in 2007 at a movie theater (I had just moved to Colorado Springs). I had just had surgery on my jaw and had my mouth wired shut (surprisingly he still spoke to me). We had worked one evening just the two of us. As we were waiting for a theater to clear, he asked me how to say my name. It was a very clever way to start a conversation since my name is unique. I began to tell him how to pronounce it and we kind of hit it off after that. I then asked him to go see Transformers with me for the midnight showing.

My shift ended and I waited for him to get off work so we could talk more. He got off and I tried to get his number. It wasn’t happening, therefore, I walked him to his car. He gave me his phone so I could give him my number. He must have thought I was crazy at this point. I was persistent and I got what I wanted.

We dated on and off since then. We had our differences and needed to see if it was meant to be and it was! Lucky for me!!

We got married about three years later, marriage is not always rainbows and butterflies, though. It’s harsh words, yelling, tears, not speaking to each other for a few hours or days and it’s going to bed angry. It’s about saying, “I’m sorry!” Showing and giving love, cuddles, date nights. It’s about sharing your desserts and watching television shows you don’t want to watch.

Our first argument was over a stupid receipt… do you know how silly that sounds? We argued because he threw the receipt away and I NEEDED it to balance out my checkbook (remember, I was 20). It was the silliest thing in the whole world to argue over a receipt.

Still ten years later we argue, we don’t always agree with what the other says or does but we love each other unconditionally.

We have three children together and raising them together is the easiest thing we’ve done.

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