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Proudly a Book Addict: Why Reading Is the Ultimate Survival Tool for Busy Moms

If being a “book addict” is wrong, then I don’t want to be right.

Between work deadlines, school schedules, laundry piles, meals that need planning, and a never-ending to-do list, reading may seem like an indulgence—something extra, something optional. But for many moms (especially working moms), reading isn’t a luxury. It’s a lifeline.

Books offer quiet in the chaos. They give us space to breathe, think, and feel like ourselves again—not just “mom” or “employee,” but a whole person.

If you’ve ever felt a little guilty about choosing a book over your phone, or staying up too late reading after everyone else is asleep, this one’s for you.

5 Signs You’re a Book Addict (And Why That’s Actually a Good Thing)

1. You Forget to Eat When the Book Is That Good

You finally sit down after a long day—kids are in bed, work emails are done, the house is quiet. You open your book “for a few minutes”… and suddenly it’s hours later.

As a mom, it’s rare to be fully absorbed in anything that’s just for you. When a book does that, it means your mind finally gets a break from mental multitasking.

Forgetting to eat isn’t the goal—but losing yourself in a story is a sign your brain is resting in a healthy way.

2. You Dream About Book Worlds Instead of Real Life Stress

Bills, schedules, deadlines—they fade away when you’re deep in a story.

Books create safe mental spaces where your brain can wander without pressure. As a working mom, your thoughts are usually pulled in a hundred directions. Reading gives your mind one clear place to land.

That’s not avoidance—it’s recovery.

3. Rainy Days Feel Like Permission to Slow Down and Read

Rainy days feel cozy instead of inconvenient. They feel like an excuse to cancel plans, stay inside, and read without guilt.

For moms who are constantly “on,” reading during quiet moments feels rebellious—in the best way. It’s choosing rest over productivity, presence over pressure.

And that matters more than we’re ever told.

4. You Always Believe the Book Is Better Than the Movie

Movies rush. Books linger.

Books let you sit inside a character’s emotions, thoughts, and struggles—something moms deeply appreciate because we feel everything. Reading allows emotional depth without the noise or distraction of screens.

When life already feels overstimulating, books offer clarity.

5. Your Dream Home Includes a Library (Because Books = Peace)

A home filled with books feels calm, intentional, and lived-in.

For moms, books represent more than stories—they symbolize quiet, learning, comfort, and personal space. A library isn’t about showing off; it’s about creating an environment that supports rest and growth.

5 Deep, Real Reasons Moms Should Read More (Especially While Working Full-Time)

1. Reading Is One of the Best Stress Relievers for Moms

Studies show reading can lower stress faster than scrolling—and moms feel this immediately.

Unlike social media, which often increases comparison and mental overload, reading slows your heart rate and relaxes your mind. Even 10–15 minutes can reset your nervous system.

After a long workday or a chaotic evening, reading becomes a form of emotional regulation.

2. Reading Helps Moms Reclaim Their Identity

Motherhood and work can slowly push personal identity to the background.

Reading reconnects you with yourself. Your interests. Your imagination. Your curiosity. It reminds you that you are more than a schedule keeper or problem solver.

Books give you space to be a person again—not just a role.

3. Reading Builds Emotional Resilience and Empathy

When you read about different lives, struggles, and perspectives, your emotional capacity expands.

For moms, this translates into:

More patience Deeper understanding Better emotional processing

Stories help us feel less alone and more equipped to handle real-life challenges.

4. Reading Improves Focus in a Distracted World

Constant notifications, emails, and multitasking train our brains to stay scattered.

Reading does the opposite.

It strengthens focus, memory, and concentration—skills that are invaluable for working moms juggling careers and households. Reading trains your brain to slow down and stay present.

5. Reading Is Affordable, Accessible “Me Time”

You don’t need babysitters, reservations, or expensive plans to read.

You can read:

Before bed

During nap time

On your lunch break

In the car while waiting

Books fit into real mom life. They’re flexible, comforting, and always available.

Why Being a Book Addict Makes You a Better Mom (Yes, Really)

Reading models healthy habits for kids—curiosity, learning, and self-care.

It shows them that rest matters. That joy matters. That books are powerful.

When moms read, we show our children that personal fulfillment doesn’t disappear after motherhood—it evolves.

There’s No Recovery Needed

Being a book addict isn’t a flaw—it’s a strength.

Books help moms manage stress, rediscover themselves, stay mentally sharp, and find comfort in the middle of busy, beautiful chaos.

So read the extra chapter.

Stay up a little late.

Choose the book.

Because a mom who reads is a mom who’s taking care of herself—and that benefits everyone. 💚📚

Things to Know about a Subchronic Hematoma

Going into my Final Pregnancy

My final pregnancy was a very hard, emotional, & scary one. I found out I was pregnant the end of October 2019. It was such a rush to know I was able to get pregnant again after so many years.

During the first week (~6 weeks pregnant) I started to bleed while I was at work. I was hysterical and immediately called the nurse advice line to see what my options were. I ended up at the clinic to see my Primary Care Manager (PCM). It was at that point I was told I was most likely experiencing a miscarriage and I needed to be referred to an OBGYN. My PCM carefully explained to me the possibility of the miscarriage and how it was nothing I did that caused it (which I still felt like it was).

I ended up at the OBGYN just a few hours later. I got to see a sac that was empty. I was told one of two possibilities; I was miscarrying or I was not far enough along to see an embryo. My husband was a different country away but i was lucky enough to have two friends there for support!

7 week baby

Another week goes by before I had another appointment. This time they saw the baby & we got to hear the heart beat. I wasn’t out of the woods yet. I had two other major bleeds and one that sent me to the hospital. I spent 24 hours in the hospital, again being told I was having a miscarriage.

I bled from November until middle of January and was on bed rest during that time. I was told to not move other than going to and from the restroom. It was super hard as I’ve always been an active person.

Second Trimester

Once I moved into my second trimester I still had the hematoma but was able to stop any contractions and bleeding.

My Second Pregnancy

I found out I was pregnant 4 days before my missed period. It was mid December and my super faint pink line was no cause for concern for me. I showed my pregnancy test to my husband who could not see the second line, saying I was not pregnant.

A few days after I took the test again and the line was darker. I went to the doctor and was about 7 weeks pregnant when I was seen! All you could see was the tiny little bulb where the baby was growing.

This pregnancy was a lot different than my first. I was convinced I was having a baby boy. My first pregnancy I was nauseous the first trimester. This pregnancy I had no nausea and was feeling amazing.

We lived in Germany and every visit I was able to see this little babe growing.

This little one kept growing and getting bigger. For my first and this pregnancy I stopped providing for the babies and they slowly gained weight the third part of my pregnancy.

I was 38 weeks pregnant when I went into the hospital for feeling unwell. I wasn’t sick but I just felt something was wrong. They immediately got me set up to monitor miss Hailey and at this point her heart rate was going down in the 90’s and they said I needed to be induced. We were having a baby!

They induced me around 5PM and I gave birth at 3 in the morning!

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